God has expectations for his people. Is the number of kids we try to have an expectation he has for us? I have been asking myself this question all week. Let me try to paint the picture how I came to this question and why I think it is really tough for us to personally answer.
This past week I was on a road trip with a couple coworkers and since I am getting married they wanted to share some of their wisdom with me. Part of that had to do with having and raising kids. One of them told me that he only had two kids because if he had more he couldn't spend enough time with any one of them. This seemed to make sense at first. But, as my mind wandered on this I started to ask myself questions. How much time is enough time? If you have things in life should a kid be one of them or that Thursday night softball game? (We have a work softball league) When someone thinks about how much time is enough time are they being selfish? Would I be selfish if I were in that case? What does God command us to do?






